Last week, I  had a conversation with with a lady who did not know any of her neighbors. She told me stories about how she had been so busy for so much of her life she did not have time for them.  In a tone of regret, she admitted that she had not seen then value of getting to know her neighbors. Things are different for her now and she would like to get to know them.  She and I spoke of ways to start to do that.

This got me thinking of how many of my neighbors I know and how much much or how little I know about each of them.  I also thought about how I met each of them.

What about you?  Can you identify with this woman?

How many of your neighbors do you know beyond just waving at them?

What suggestions would you offer this person who wants to meet more of her neighbors?

 
 
I recently saw a stunning and captivating movie, Detropia. This film takes the viewer through the rise of the once fastest growing city in the world, and the city that epitomized the American dream to now  a city that has seen over half of it residents, homes, industry, and city services disappear. 

Can it become Utopia again? 

You meet many amazing committed citizens who despite the despair see the hope and possibility.

 
 
Over the weekend I attended an unusual event,  “A Street Food Festival” in a neighborhood that many don’t often have the opportunity to experience the many gifts that are present.

About a dozen mobile food vendors formed an oval on a usually busy street in the neighborhood, selling their food. In addition to the many diverse delicious food options there was also: mural painting, pottery making, mask making, t shirt design, music and opportunities to learn about the many cool things going on in the neighborhood. There were also plenty of tables and chairs so people could sit and meet others.

The organizers did an amazing job creating such a wonderful time to show and build community.

Anything cool going on in your neighbourhood?
 
 
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Recently I have been thinking a lot about the sustainability of
initiatives such as Asset Based Community Development and Community Connecting. 

At the  Reinventing Quality conference in Baltimore a few weeks ago I had an opportunity to hear from so many people in the disability services field who are energized and eager to start Community Connecting work in their neighborhoods.   While I celebrate these beginnings,  I can't help but focus on ways to make this kind of community development work easily sustainable.  

Groups and organizations that I am working with in US and Canada have started a major shift by putting the key elements of ABCD Community Connection into action.  People are getting to know the neighborhoods around them ... friendships are blooming, deep connections are emerging ... and reliance  traditional service systems is decreasing.  The excitement and enthusiasm of those involved is enough to  get it started.  Now the conversation is about how to sustain it and measure the outcomes that matter.  

Throughout the next few weeks, I will be sharing some ideas and stories about the sustainability of ABCD Community Connections.  Please stay tuned and join in the conversation.          - Joe 

 
 
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Recently I was working in Central Wisconsin and the group I was working with suggested we take a break for lunch. They gave me a menu to look at and said we were going to place nearby, “The Daily Grind.”  My hosts suggested that we call our order in, as the place gets very busy. The menu looked good and I ordered a Walleye sandwich and Chicken Creole soup.

I was not surprised when we arrived that the place was extremely busy and all the tables looked occupied.   I saw one table that had a “Reserved” sign on it and food at it.   As we walked by I thought I saw a walleye sandwich and was happy, as it looked wonderful. I quickly learned the owner reserved that table for us and that was our food waiting. It was hot and delicious and the hospitality was amazing.

If you are ever in Marshfield, Wisconsin stop by the Daily Grind. The walleye is delicious, the soups are amazing and the hospitality is incredible.


Which are the places in your community that show this same kind of radical hospitality?


 
 

Just getting back from a a wonderful week in Vancouver, British Columbia. 

I visited many community gardens that had been recently built in neighbourhoods across the city. 
A group, PosAbilities that is exploring ways to connect the assets found in this great city is the lead organizer with the “ Can You Dig It” initiative.  They have organized over 25 gardens, including one day builds (celebrations) and have connected dozens of community groups and people.  

Check them out:

"Can You Dig It" website

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Community Gardens are great examples of a local place where people can gather and spend time.   

Do you have a  story or link for other great examples of Community Gardens in your area?
 
 
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Thank you Vanessa and Big Footprints!

The new hand outs look incredible.

Trying them out in Vancouver this week!

 
 
   
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Small Potatoes, a strangely sentimental exhibit at Thunder-Sky Inc., is like a heapin’ helping of Grandma’s comfort food. It’s unapologetically lumpy, undeniably homemade and served without fancy presentation but with a whole lot of love.  Even those with refined palates can appreciate the dinner-table discussion if not the actual buffet of “self-made (and repurposed) knick-knacks, tchotchkes and other curiosities.” This show isn’t so much about art collections as it is about the art of collecting, sometimes to the point of hoarding. Why is one person’s trash another’s treasure? When does a thrifty recycler need a reality check? At what point does hanging on to childhood mementoes go from cute to creepy?  

The reality show Hoarders, one of the inspirations for Small Potatoes, has taught us that an obsessive-compulsive pack rat might start out with a seemingly harmless habit. Similarly, one wall of the exhibit happens to be more innocent than the opposite side, notes gallery co-founder Bill Ross. 

Nearly all the art in the show is placed on or low to the floor — perfect for evoking a child’s point of view and creating anAlice in Wonderland aesthetic. Lighthearted paperboard robots and dolls by Katherine Ziff of Athens, Ohio, line shelves fashioned out of old lumber, concrete blocks and paint cans. More robots sit atop metal TV trays — black floral ones like Grandma’s, of course. 

It’s fitting that Ziff found her inspiration in the art of second-graders she met as a school counselor. Food boxes, egg cartons and toilet paper rolls are minimally transformed into whimsical figures with button eyes and coifs made out of newspaper fans. Who’s to say they’re less special than a cabinet of vintage Barbies or porcelain dolls?

Matthew Waldeck’s colorful, plush action figures look like characters out of Saturday morning Schoolhouse Rock! lessons. Waldeck (of Cincinnati) pairs smiling and frowning figures, re-creating the childhood world where inanimate objects become friends and enemies. An eraser, with its soothing pink color and soft corners, is good and kind. Mr. Scissors, though, is mean and hurtful.

Read the full article in City Beat

 
 
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A Guest Post by our friend April Doner.  
From This Week in Sarasosta

It’s the season for red cellophane heart-shaped boxes, romantic dates and love letters. In the spirit of the season, I decided to put my feelings for my greatest local “paramour” into words and pictures in a love letter to my neighborhood, Gillespie Park.  - April Doner





Ten Things I Love About You
A Love Letter to Gillespie Park

Dear Gillespie Park,

Since the day we first met, when I was visiting my friends at the blue house on 7th St., I have nurtured a strong and enduring love for you. I hope you won’t think me presumptuous in sharing my feelings so openly, but I can’t shake this feeling that we are made for each another. My greatest sadness would be for you to never know how very special you are …  

So here are 10things I love the most about you:  
(Read the full article)


 
 
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Have you ever been to a place where it just feels wonderfully good to spend time there?

I am thinking of places that offer an open sincere welcome, and possess such a sense of warmth and open energy that it feels great just to be there.

In my neighborhood I know of several places like that.

One such place is Happen, Inc.

Happen is a “play center” for kids and their parents and by its nature is a very creative space. But it is not the creativity that fosters the hospitality, warmth, friendship and the power that is easily discovered here. It flows from the people.

Tommy Reuff is the chief welcomer and conductor of Happen. He is also a talented community builder. He is amazing at welcoming, pays intense attention to people’s gifts and this space in turn offers great hospitality.

I spend much of my time discovering places where this sense of radical hospitality exists.

It is at these places where not only people are usually welcomed, but often so are their gifts.

I have discovered thousands of hospitable places in the Cincinnati area.  What about you??

- Joe

FOR YOUR REFLECTION AND SHARING:

What are the places in YOUR neighbourhood that offer sincere welcomes?

What places in YOUR neighbourhood make you feel great?