Theo is elderly gentleman who shows up in the town of Golden and seems like a very nice person whom most of us would like to meet. Theo of Golden is a fictional story of a connector. Once in town he begins paying attention to the assets present in this small t...
Author: Joseph Erpenbeck
Colour Coded Understanding
After a day of conversations about community, connection, and care, someone grabbed my arm as I walked out of a session. “I just wanted to show you something,” he said, reaching into his pocket. He pulled out a pen and his notebook.It wasn’t just any...
If You Listen Long Enough
Last week, Dr. Vivek Merthy, former US Surgeon General, spoke at a conference in Cincinnati. He discussed the current culture and its focus on wealth, fame, and power and described the need for counterculture actions, such as the power of being present for one...
Stronger Together
Last week, I had the privilege of spending time with one of the most heart-centred, creative, and committed groups I’ve ever encountered—the Community Builders Team in Torbay, England. It’s hard to describe what made this gathering so special, but I’ll...
A Place to Gather
A Place to Gather On a recent trip back to Vancouver, workers constructed several wooden benches in my old neighbourhood. During my time there, I ran into friends and neighbours by having a place to sit and gather. These probably weren’t too expensive an...
Reciprocity
We had been discussing an asset-based approach to building community connections. We have focused on being curious about the assets in the community, which sometimes requires a shift from being transactional to becoming more relational. Last week, Laura s...
Remembering John O’Brien
I first met John O’Brien many years ago at a training session. At the end of the day, he read Oregon’s Journey to the group—a children’s book about Oregon the Bear, who dreams of returning to the forests of the Pacific Northwest, and Duke...
Home is Where the Heart is
Home is Where the Heart is I was curious about a stump on our sidewalk that contained all sorts of items. On any given day, there might be jewelry, a ball, small toys, photos, bracelets, a squirt gun, and plastic flowers. Last week, I met a neighbor and asked ...
Reaching for Happiness
This week’s New York Times magazine was their “happiness issue.” It contained articles exploring the idea of happiness through the ages and the cultural forces that shape it. They start with a big statement that there’s a formula for ha...
You Belong Here
You Belong HereThis message and welcome were outside a community center in my neighbourhood. I have always been a fan of sidewalk chalk and have been reminded of the power of people, places, and groups that extend radical hospitality. ABCD is based on the prem...
